Be careful how you talk to yourself, because you are listening.
Hello people.So my inspiration and confidence has been lost a little after a few comments about my writings but I am back and here’s the first post of the year and to a hundred more..Enjoy!
Have you ever been in a hole, gone through the most in your life and you have no idea what to do with yourself? Stuff like financial hardships, losing a loved one , heartbreaks , low self esteem or self doubt and so forth. However you choose to handle any of these situations or what you then tell yourself during that period and any other day of your life is very important.
If you struggle with low self esteem which could have been triggered by different things the first thing you got to do is believe in yourself. How you go about it is by simply learning to tell yourself the opposite good and soon enough you will believe it, feel like it and act like it.
I know you have probably had the statement “what do you tell yourself every morning?” and just thought ohh well. Even if you don’t feel like getting out of bed what you say to yourself before you step out of it will matter. If you want to conquer the world then tell yourself super loudly that’s what you are going to do.
Growing up I have had so many people believe in me and cheerleading for my team. Their faith in me only went as far but I also had to believe in me and talk myself out of throwing in the towel when things got tough.
No matter how many times your man will call you beautiful if you haven’t told yourself that then you will not believe it. No matter how many times your woman tells you she loves you and you are enough as long as you haven’t told the guy in the mirror you love him and he is enough then it’s all fables to you.
Tell yourself you love YOU, you believe in YOU and when others say it you will believe it. Even when they don’t love or believe in you it won’t get you down.
“I am” are two powerful words so be very careful what you put after them. Even when in your silence as you think be careful of what you let your mind whisper.
Be careful how you think, your life is shaped by your thoughts. Proverbs 4:23