I thought I had my fair share of the battle of living in a navy blue society while looking pretty in pink, but all I can say is for the few decades I have been on this earth, I have seen how it is tough being a man in these streets. Don't get me wrong,… Continue reading Are boys allowed to cry?
On the last post we shared how the bereavement process after losing someone to suicide is challenging as it is so sudden and people are left hurt with so many questions. In our society there is so much superstition surrounding suicide that the bereaved do not even know who turn to for help. Here are… Continue reading Losing a loved one to suicide (2)
Imagine the emotional roller-coaster of one day waking up and all you want to do is stay in bed all day, or being in seventh heaven for a minute then it all just changes. I never used to understand why my aunt's daughter aged 20, found so much fun in watching TV shows meant… Continue reading It’s okay if you do not understand it
Coronavirus disease (COVID-19) is an infectious disease caused by a new virus and it knows no race or geography as it can affect anyone anywhere. I am not going into the statistics of COVID-19 as this is also causing some sort of panic but you need to know it’s real and one needs to take… Continue reading Mental well being with the ”rona” on our backs
This is a series of stories from different women and men and their experiences with relationships. Most of the stories will not have the actual characters name so as to protect the people involved. As we walk on this journey called life there are so many things that are happening around us but sadly most… Continue reading Untold stories:She found her wings and flew away (1)
Matthew 7:7-8 Ask, and it shall be given unto you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. These verses will have you thinking that when you say the words… Continue reading Is God foolish or what?
We grew up in different places and raised by different people and from where I come from suicide , depression and other things to do with mental health are barely topics to discuss. Many view suicide as a sign of weakness and those who take their own lives are regarded COWARDS. Many people do not… Continue reading Suicide is for COWARDS..Really?
How do you forgive someone even when they don't apologize? Truly forgiving isn’t just uttering a few words and moving on. We often hold on to the events, the past, the words long into the future. And they drag us down. “When a deep injury is done to us, we never heal until we forgive.”… Continue reading #HealingAugust: A List Of The People I Need To Forgive
Every day that we are breathing we find ourselves in different situations, with a lesson learnt everytime if you choose to pay attention. My past had me in the good, the bad and the great and from it all I learnt something. From the mistakes , the stupid decisions and to getting it right sometimes,… Continue reading #HealingAugust :Lessons From My Past
To those who read the last post on healing , one was supposed to partake an exercise listing "why they haven't dealt with their past". So many times people get to used to their situations and they hold on to the past hurt,pain , heartache , disappointment and so forth. It seems that it somehow… Continue reading 5 Reasons Why You Need To Deal With Your Past