relationships, life,

How childhood trauma can affect your adult relationships

DISCLAIMER: Some of the views in this post have been researched by psychologists but the majority are my personal views. They say if you do not deal with your childhood trauma, your romantic relationships will. As much as it is a bitter pill to swallow, childhood traumas do affect one’s relationships one way or the… Continue reading How childhood trauma can affect your adult relationships

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Black tax is surely taxing

Many have probably heard this word but never explored what it really means and even the effects of the notion of black tax. I feel that this topic is as important as it is sensitive as these are some of the issues we need to confront as far as financial literacy is concerned.  Look, we… Continue reading Black tax is surely taxing

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Don’t just break up with him, break the pattern

So, you have broken up with him and as much as it hurts you feel you deserved better and walking away was you respecting and loving yourself, well done boo. Now you are a prominent member of the singletons club but still willing to dive back into the waters but you scared what happened in… Continue reading Don’t just break up with him, break the pattern

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When did you realise you were the toxic one?

I have seen people post about toxic marriages , toxic boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, toxic parents and the worst the toxic friends. Most people have some sort of experience with one of the above mentioned. But before you talk about the speck in the next persons eye have you managed to look in the mirror… Continue reading When did you realise you were the toxic one?